A lady in our church called me one day to ask me to pray for
her new little granddaughter who had a severe hearing impairment; in fact, she was
deaf. From time to time the grandmother would bring the little one to our
church and she would take her to the nursery. Pretty soon, the whole family
came to church on a fairly regular basis. Our nursery folks took good care of
little, blonde Amy, but when she was four she outgrew our nursery department. I
vividly remember the first morning after she turned four. As I stepped to the
pulpit I dismissed the children 4 years through 5th grade to our
great children’s church. I saw Amy’s grandmother walk hand-in-had with her out
of the sanctuary to take her to her class. As I saw them go, tears came to my
eyes, and I had a hard time getting into my sermon, because my heart broke when
I realized we were not prepared to teach a deaf child about Jesus. From then on,
her grandmother, and later her mother, tried to help by going with Amy and
signing to her what the teacher said. They were gracious about it, but I knew
it wasn’t enough, and it also meant that one of them had to miss worship every
week they came.
About this time, I found out about a ministry called Silent Blessings, which had been
founded by a college classmate of mine, Marshall Lawrence. He understood the
problems of deaf people better than I ever could, because his daughter is deaf.
He offered some breakout sessions on ministry to the deaf at our annual
denominational convention. For the first time, I got a glimpse of understanding
that the deaf community is an unreached
people group who live among the rest of us. Around 30 million Americans have significant hearing loss. Turns out only about 2% of deaf people know Christ as
Savior, and most churches have nothing for them. Less than 5% of churches have any outreach to the deaf and usually
that consists of offering sign translation of the sermon. While that is
helpful, it is not nearly enough, especially for those who were born deaf. A
child who grows up deaf will probably never hear the Bible stories most of us
take for granted, so when a sermon is signed to them as an adult, they often
don’t have enough background to understand it very well.
Marshall also introduced a deaf pastor and some deaf
believers to the breakout sessions. It was delightful to hear their testimonies
through translators. What’s more is they had a deaf service two nights of the
convention and that was a real eye-opener to me. More precisely, it was an ear
opener. Even though they couldn’t hear, they still praised God through music.
They loved to feel the beat, which requires the volume to be turned up very
loudly.
Our church tried to make accommodations for Amy. I shared my
concern about Amy and the deaf with our people and many of them understood the
problem. Amy’s mother and a friend taught sign language and several of the
children took the classes and really tried to communicate with Amy. We had
Marshall come and share his ministry with us. I took two free ASL classes at
the local college, but when you aren’t around a deaf person all the time, it’s
hard to approach proficiency. Anyway, about the time I finished my classes, Amy’s
family moved away and we only saw her when she came to visit her grandmother.
Our church wanted to do something that would reach deaf
people, but we ran against problems that
are common to people who want to reach this community:
1. The deaf community is tight knit.
2. They are self-sufficient.
3. They have a hard time trusting the hearing community.
4. They don’t consider their affliction as a handicap, or
even an affliction, and they don’t like being treated as handicapped.
5. They speak a foreign language called ASL, American Sign
Language.
Families with deaf
children have unique problems:
1. Nearly
95% of all deaf children have hearing parents.
2. Only
about 10% of those parents ever learn enough sign language to hold a conversation
with their children.
3. They
have to make very difficult decisions concerning treatment and education. Right
choices are not clear-cut. They are far reaching, and there’s a lot of
conflicting advice.
What I would like my
readers to do:
1. Please pray for this enormous, largely ignored unreached
people group.
2. Educate yourself about the deaf community. A great first
step is to visit the Silent Blessings
website, silentblessings.org.
3 Check out the children’s television program that Silent Blessings produces, “Dr. Wonder’sWorkshop.” It’s an amazing tool God is using to teach deaf kids about Jesus. If you can’t find it on your TV
listings, check out samples at silentblessings.org.
4. Give to folks who
are on the mission to the deaf community like Silent Blessings
5. Consider having
Marshall Lawrence come to share his burden for the deaf with your church, small group, or club. He
will open your eyes and touch your heart
with this great ministry.